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Mariah Friend's avatar

I can relate to this so much. The constant wondering if I'm squandering my time away with Noah, not being present enough (I mean, how many times can you really listen to Old McDonald on repeat without needing a distraction?) hoping I won't regret trying to invest in my creative projects and writing while he's still so little.

There are no answers but I think it helps me gain perspective when I remember it's not that we're somehow failing our work or our children---it's that society is failing mothers and parents and caregivers by not valuing the work of raising children and tending to our elders. Our culture is failing us, not the other way around.

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Emma Del Rey's avatar

I feel this so much. Our days sound similar and my son is almost two. Each day is different and I try to cram everything I can into nap time. I have grown much more resilient and comfortable with how I let the days flow. Like you said sometimes tv, sometimes outside. This is the best option for us right now and I’m tired of feeling guilty for how things are in this season.

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